High School Musical Chairs

June 23, 2008
posted by Andy | View Comments

ceasers-palace-las-vegas-4-digital.jpgBeing part of a company that is all about bringing people with things in common together, I remain on my quest to find someone who has been to 4 high schools in one year like I did in 1988.

When I was 12, my mom married a man named Mike Dimond and we lived in Nashville, TN. He was a pioneer in the hotel industry and built a reputation for re- energizing hotels and resorts with new ideas and excellent guest service. After we completed 8th grade, Mike accepted a job in Tampa, FL at Saddlebrook Resort and we were happy to move to try a new place. Little did I know that when that Uhaul truck pulled up in the summer of 1985 to move us to Florida, that it I would see Uhaul many more times over the next few years.

At the end of my freshmen year, Mike accepted a job at the Boca Raton Hotel so we moved to Boca Raton, FL, though this time not as willing participants. We thought the world was over but after a few months managed to settle in, make new friends and get excited. Well for those of you who saw the movie Groundhog Day, my life was the prequel.

As sophomore year ended, my mom and Mike began taking trips to Las Vegas and I was worried about them developing a bad gambling habit and even more concerned that there might be a job offer on the horizon. I remember thinking to myself that there was no way we could move 3 years in a row and, until I saw some Fedex packages arriving at our house from Caesars Palace, was not alarmed.

We left for Las Vegas in early August and they had to drag my brother and I to the airport. Imagine having to start over every year of high school. We enrolled in Bishop Gorman High School as juniors (Andre Agassi was a student there at the time). We lived in a penthouse suite in Caesars Palace and walked through the casino every morning with our books, wearing our school uniforms and tried not to distract the gamblers, drinkers and smokers. Nothing like arriving at school already smelling like smoke. It would always be a few months of eating room service every night while living in the hotel before finding a house (which did get old believe it or not).

After a few weeks, I called my dad who was living in Nashville (and had his entire life) and asked if I could move back home with him to finish high school there. At least I could reconnect with my grade school friends. He invited me to come back, so I drove my Jeep Commanche pickup truck 36 hours straight, by myself, from Las Vegas to Nashville on Interstate 40. My twin brother, Asher, stayed behind betting that Vegas would be the last stop.

When I arrived in Nashville my dad asked me to go to Hilsboro Public School (I had never been to public school in my life) as he wasn’t crazy about paying tuition for the private school where my friends went. I agreed to try it and after 9 days, I convinced him to let me join my friends at Father Ryan High School. Finally, the world was right and I had managed to recover from all the change. What could go wrong now?

It was January 1988 and my dad sat me down to tell me he was being transferred to San Francisco. I don’t remember how I responded but I’m sure it wasn’t pleasant. I had no one to stay with in Nashville, and I didn’t want to move back to Las Vegas, so one of my friends and his family in Boca Raton offered to let me move-in and live with them to finish high school. How I talked my parents into that, I will never know.

In February of 1988, I re-enrolled at Pope John Paul II High School in Boca Raton, (my 4th high school for that year). Wait, it gets better.

That summer, Mike got a job offer he could not refuse at the Broadmoor Hotel and Resort in Colorado Springs. My brother and I talked he and my mom into getting a condo in Boca Raton so that my brother and I could both finish senior year at the same place. My mom spent 2 weeks a month in Colorado and 2 weeks a month in Boca Raton so my brother and I made the best use of our freedom. I often liken that experience to the difference between the first cruise we ever did which was a group of 400 people on a ship with 1200 other normal cruisers and the ones we do now where we charter a ship. To me its the difference between having a party where your parents are in town vs. a party where your parents are not even in the same state. Believe it or not, we both managed to graduate without getting arrested.

I share this story with you today because Mike recently suffered a heart attack and is in a deep coma. Although my mom and Mike divorced in 1990, he and I remain close and even reconnected 6 years ago to create Weekend of Jazz with Earl Klugh at the Broadmoor Resort. As I began working with him in 2002, it became crystal clear that the years watching him innovate and deliver world class service have impacted me greatly. He never graduated from college yet he achieved so much in his industry and earned the respect of all his peers before he retired last year.

Next year, I have 5 Twenty Year Reunions to attend if I can make the schedule work. I remember high school fondly despite all the changes. At the time, it was the most painful thing I could have imagined. Now I can see it as part of my journey that has led me here today and I would not trade it for anything. It has prepared me to face adversity and charge head on with a calm optimism. I have Mike Dimond to thank for that.

-Andy

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  • Les

    I didn’t do 4 high schools in one year but I did do three high schools and one college in less than two years. Started my junior year in Nebraska, moved to MN in the middle of my junior year. Lived there for 9 months and then moved to WI in the middle of my senior year. Went back to NE (a different town) for my first year of college. And no, my dad wasn’t in the military.

  • Jenn S.

    Great post. (((((healing vibes for Mike)))))

    Can you tell us who you are? I don’t know which Sixthman Superstar is writing!

  • http://www.sixthman.net april

    umm… i feel as though im the complete other end of the spectrum. once i hit high school – i had been with my group of best friends for almost 10 years. yep, we all pretty much started out in day care and pre-school together.

    although i will never understand how you made it through all of the change, i will forever appreciate that feeling of being where you belong… especially in a time as important as high school graduation.

  • http://www.sixthman.net Steve

    Jeez, the most I moved, in my 18 years of life before college, was across the street. Seriously. I moved from 8 Fox Run to 7 Fox Run. The moving crew just carried the washer and dryer across the street rather than load it into a truck.

    Of course, since leaving high school, I did 4 years in Nashville for college, a year and a half in Pacific Beach, California, and now it’s been 6 months in Atlanta.

    I think you leave a little bit of yourself behind, and add part of your new surroundings to your personality whenever you spend time in new location. It’s what makes you who you are, especially if it happens while you’re growing up.

    Last summer, I recall standing on the beach in California in a Red Sox teeshirt, wearing a cowboy hat, and carrying a surfboard under my arm…definitely a product of my environments.

  • http://www.sixthman.net Andy

    Sorry, I thought it showed my name. I am Andy Levine from Sixthman and Mike passed away this afternoon. We will celebrate him in Colorado on Thursday.

  • Dave Gilroy

    That had to be tough. I remember how hard it was for me to move away from my friends midway through my sophmore year. I never recovered. I return to Arizona every year to see those friends.
    Sorry for your loss. My thoughts go out to you and Mikes family and friends

  • Margi

    Wow and I feel bad having just moved my kids once in 3 years.. gives me great perspective. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family with regards to Mike’s passing.

  • Les

    You and yours are in my thoughts and prayers during this time.

  • Denise

    Andy, so sorry for your loss, you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

    I only moved once durning my school days, can’t imagine moving that many times

  • http://www.sixthman.net Jodi

    I moved around every year until I was 10 years old. Most years we would move at least a couple of times. I often think that is why I am so deatached. Last weekend was the first time I went back to my hometown (the town where I went to high school at least) in 11 years. I left high school to go to college and never went back. It is very difficult as a child not to have stability. But it looks like we turned out ok in the end.

  • http://www.therockboat.com Brian

    I’m sorry for your loss, Andy.

    I moved around almost as much as a kid, but never more than two schools in a single grade. And, a lot of my changes were because of rezoned districts, so most of the time I got to stay with the same friends. Still, my high school was my 9th school. At least I got to do all four years in peace.

  • Cathy

    Andy, Our sincere sympathy.

  • Sherri

    So sorry for your loss, Andy. You and your family are in my thoughts today as you memorialize Mike.

  • http://yahoo.com Doug

    Sincere condolences to you and your family Andy. I live in Colorado Springs and saw Mike the day he died. Unfortunately, I did not get the chance to know him well but he was best friends with one of my friends who is 92 and I have never seen a person pour out so much love and concern to another person, in their family or not. Mike was a very special person and I will miss him very much because I attended the service today and got a clear and consistent picture from everyone I spoke with that Mike was one in a million. How lucky you were to have him in your life.

  • mandy

    Hugs to you Andy. Mike died on the 13th “anniversary” of my mom’s death so my heart goes out to you.

    On a lighter note…I managed to live in the same house from age 3 to 18…then then proceeded to move at least once (sometimes 3 times) a year after that for the next 13 years. yup, gotta make up for lost time I guess.

  • Shawn

    Andy,
    Sorry to hear about your Step-Dad. He sounds like he was a man that accomplished much and left a positive mark on your life. My thoughts are with you and your family.

  • http://zacefronhot.com Grace

    Hello. Great job. This is a great story. Thanks!

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