Every time I say the word “fan”, I feel uncomfortable. As someone who spends most of his time with “fans”, I see people who are more like “friends”. It’s just that if any of these “fans” did as much for me as they have for these bands, they would be better “friends” than most of the people I call “friends”.
Our business was inspired by a group of “fans” that demanded to spend some quality time with their favorite band, Sister Hazel, whom we managed at the time. These “fans” had called every radio station to request the band’s songs, bought tickets to the shows when the band performed in their town, passed out flyers and even let the band sleep on their couch when they could not afford hotels. So, in order to show their appreciation, the band invited the 400+ fans on a cruise and they all showed up. Once on board the ship, we quickly realized that if we abandoned the thinking that we were supposed to build a wall between the band and the people who cared about them the most, we would have a perfect opportunity to get to know amazing people that we now call “friends”. That weekend was an exchange of mutual respect and appreciation like none I had never seen.
Hopefully all bands will take a moment to shake hands and get to know some of the “friends” who afford them the opportunity to have a career in music. Maybe even ask their new “friends” for their autograph? After all, their autograph should be worth more to the band than the band’s is to them. I’d like to hear some stories about bands that have “fans” and bands that have “friends”. My hope is that in some way or another Sixthman has been able to play a small part in promoting more of the latter and less of the former.












